Right, so you know in this day and age we have so many social connections and relationships, some of which ultimately might just fizzle out, it really just can't last, are time-limited like you said. Or as other ones I imagine in order for them to possess really have to be transformed. So what is involved in transforming a relationship? >> Well, like maybe we will first offer a conceptual framework for understanding this. And then like we can also get to sort of like be more practical aspect of how to manage those transformation. Well, in the SSLD model obviously, we talk about human life as having six domains. At first aspect would be the environment, the reality that we find ourselves in. So when we are making a drastic transformation in a relationship, say for example if two persons who are living together who are married and then they decide that they are not going to live together any more. Or they're going to be separated. Then obviously the physical environment changes. Like you are not sleeping on the same bed anymore. You're not living in the same house any more. Or you have people who get resettled to another city and other country. Then again, the very physical reality of the relationship would be changed. So when do you do that, you know. You have to deal with to manage like the implication of it. You may say for example, you used to get rides to work and now you don't get it anymore. You may have to get a bike and go to work. And then the other thing is when you go through this transformation, the other aspect of external reality that's really important is the social scripts that govern this transformation. Say for example, in the West, in most situations when you are separated or when you break up with someone, or when you get divorced, many of the social obligations will almost automatically be removed, right. If someone told you that like I'm breaking up with you then you can almost safely assume that you don't need to go to his mother's birthday party next February. So that's the kind of social scripts that sort of direct people, but as we have said before, you know like how do people follow those scripts is pretty much like personal choice as well. In SSLD, the six domains of human life is a comprehensive framework for understanding human experience within its social context. One of the domains introduced here is environment and social reality, which for instance could be the physical environment. One of the aspects of external reality and that's really important in governing a transformation is social script. Social scripts direct and govern people with their lives and it's interesting to also look at how they choose to follow these scripts.