Ok, so let's say we take into this idea of being more proactive in our relationships. If we take this idea into account, maybe you can give some examples of how else this can be helpful in a relationship? >> Yeah, one example that I can think of is like when we become like more proactive and assume more responsibility for our own decision and action is that we can probably deal with this a very common problem in relationship especially intimate relationships that I call the “Mind Reading Fantasy". So what is "Mind Reading Fantasy"? That you expect your partner to be able to read your mind. So before you even say something, he or she will be doing this for you. We do not have to say something and then like he or she should be able to like understand almost intuitively and then like take care of the situation of your needs. When you think differently, right, then you will not be blaming someone for like how can you not know that I don't want this, right? How can you not know that this is what I prefer. Instead of saying that, you like taking responsibility, if I want something, if I prefer something, do I not have a responsibility to communicate to this person? Maybe you don't really like the aesthetics of like explicit, direct concrete communication, but you can still try like can I not, like, write a poem, right? [LAUGH] Draw a painting or whatever. Like I want to communicate and help this person understand. And I would not just like sit there or sit here and assume and expect this person to automatically read my mind. So I would say that isn't in our example, you know. Like if you more proactive, you don't fall into the trap of this “Mind Reading Fantasy”. >> So maybe next time I'll paint a picture of a slice of pizza for my partner and in that way, I can kind of mark explicitly show him what I want, without having to guess. >> Okay. >> [LAUGH] >> [LAUGH] All right, thats a good example like, and I believe the two of you can probably like keep on doing that and come up like even more creative ideas. That would be wonderful, yeah. >> I'll let you back to the gallery opening. >> Okay, [LAUGH] >> [LAUGH] >> Yeah.